Dear Anja and Ingrid,
That's some great news! I trust you are able to make it work this time. As long as you can talk effectively in private, communicate your needs to each other, and you are both willing to put effort into the relationship, it should be all right. Actually changing your tastes in a healthy way is difficult - but often possible. Good luck!
Anyway. I'm not sure if I can or should really give meaningful advice, to anyone in the community. As you know, my "experience" is mostly from books. Maybe all I should say is: cherish and develop your consensual power-exchange relationships - be very careful with all forms of reduced or delayed consent - and if your partner doesn't leave you any option of release at all, it's not love, it's abuse.
I don't want to make it sound like a farewell. I might be less active, but I'll continue looking here from time to time. I'm truly interested to read how all of you are doing. And I really hope to come here one day with my own submissive, and tell you our story. It might take a year or more, if ever. For now, we're playing chess.
All the best,
DoomTurtle