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Dear Anja and Ingrid,

That's some great news! I trust you are able to make it work this time. As long as you can talk effectively in private, communicate your needs to each other, and you are both willing to put effort into the relationship, it should be all right. Actually changing your tastes in a healthy way is difficult - but often possible. Good luck!



Anyway. I'm not sure if I can or should really give meaningful advice, to anyone in the community. As you know, my "experience" is mostly from books. Maybe all I should say is: cherish and develop your consensual power-exchange relationships - be very careful with all forms of reduced or delayed consent - and if your partner doesn't leave you any option of release at all, it's not love, it's abuse.

I don't want to make it sound like a farewell. I might be less active, but I'll continue looking here from time to time. I'm truly interested to read how all of you are doing. And I really hope to come here one day with my own submissive, and tell you our story. It might take a year or more, if ever. For now, we're playing chess.

All the best,
DoomTurtle

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Dear DoomTurtle,

I consider your advice always welcome whether it is based on books or on personal interaction. It is always good to have other points of view as a check on what I am doing. Your comments and suggestions have been very helpful to me and my custodian. It would be sad to have this be even a partial farewell. I have missed your insight while we were worrying about Ingrid and Sophie. I am hoping your will be around to hear about the life progression of Jess and MsHanna, if we hear from them again.
In any event, I hope life treats you well and something comes of your chess playing. That seems like an interesting way to begin an authority based relationship. You will both have good insight into how the other thinks and how they develop strategies. I wish you the best.

Respectfully,
705

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705 wrote:

That is an interesting idea. I will suggest that some of the intermittent confinement time be served at home under increased restraint over the weekend. I am not sure if that would provide the same level of confinement, even with photo or video verification but it is worth suggesting. During our last discussion, I was told that the arrangement for confinement has changed a bit in a way that might make it more available and easier to schedule.

Hi 705.

Did your supervisior took my idea into consideration?

Greetings

Azureko

Last edited by Azureko1 (2023-11-16 21:26:57)

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Dear 705,

Thank you very much for your kind words and wishes! I can confirm, not even a partial farewell. It is simply that I have much less time now, and I have grown critical of some my earlier posts. I will certainly continue to read the forum and try to write from time to time. After all, I regard all of you as friends and see your experiences as valuable lessons. I am always really interested to read about your situation, and Miisa's, and how the other relationships will develop, and of course if Sophie can find some unlikely happy solution for herself.

As for my case... We did not begin with chess. In fact, we have already attempted a D/s relationship, which failed for objective reasons that I shouldn't talk about. So we agreed to stay in contact as close friends and, probably, give each other another romantic chance when we are ready for it.

Greetings,
Turtle

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Dear Sir Doom Turtle,
I hope that one day you can make your dream come true and that you will continue to come here to give us your precious advice
We, through my fault, came close to disaster, but Mistress Anja showed a lot of understanding and love.
I understood that we cannot always have everything and immediately what we want and that the other has their say.
We talked a lot about my needs for discipline and especially about suffering and his inability to beat me.
It's a dilemma for her to want to fulfill my masochistic desires, without directly punishing me.
Mistress Anja is gifted and imaginative at commanding and imposing her will on me but she is anything but sadistic.
I know, I'm not clear, but it's complicated in our heads.
She suggested that we try to find someone to punish me, but that's out of the question for me, I will only submit to her, my love.
Humbly.
Ingrid

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Greetings, I have been rather busy with being an inmate the past 4-5 weeks apart from a few days at home picking up college assignments that time, but almost continuously been locked up as an inmate, which has been fun, even if I have had a lot of college studies to take care of!

Dear Ingrid, and Madam Anja

I'm glad you two got back into the power exchange dynamic, and hopefully you two keep getting more into it!

As always, I am more than willing to answer any and all questions you all may have!

Hugs,

Inmate/convict/prisoner Hanna

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Azureko1 wrote:

Did your supervisior took my idea into consideration?

Dear Azureko1,

Yes, I took your idea to my supervisor and it will probably become part of my program in some form beginning in January. I expect it will be part of some other changes, as well. Thank you.

Respectfully,
705

Last edited by 705 (2023-11-18 23:23:37)

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Dear Ladies and Gentlemen,
I'm happy for you, Miss MsHanna that everything is going well for you.
Sir 705, I missed the fact that changes were planned for you next year, sorry.
What does this mean?, a tightening of your control or more freedom in view of the improvement in your behavior?
For my part, Mistress Anja remains angry with me and makes me pay for it with humiliation, bad food and many other punishments that are not really painful but very unpleasant and some of which I don't like at all.
Mistress Anja told me that since I want to be punished, I must not like my punishments.
Humbly.
Ingrid

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Dear all
I am exasperated by Ingrid's attitude, but my problem is that I refuse to give her corporal punishment and that the coercive measures that I take do not seem sufficient, although I find them very harsh
I am interested in any educational measures you can advise me.
I make her eat foods she hates,
her showers are cold, I had her beautiful hair cut, she often wears her burlap outfit and since this weekend there are 10 kilo balls on her ankles,
she was entitled to some humiliations...etc
But nothing is done, she always wants more.
Kisses.
Anja

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Hello Ms Anja, and Ingrid,

In my opinion, punishment should be something that is not enjoyable for the person that is being punished.

I personally like it when I am locked up in my room, so it wouldn't serve as a good punishment for me, but I don't like being spanked, or left outside for a night in chains and handcuffs, so those would serve as a good punishment, and something I try to avoid at all costs.

I don't think Ingrid should be punished with corporal punishment, but with things she does not like, of course respecting her limits, but still. Punishments are not meant to be pleasurable.

Hugs,

Inmate Hanna

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Dear Ms Anje and Ingrid,

I agree with Ms Hanna. Punishment needs to be things that are unpleasant and not things that the prisoner wants to have happen. It sounds to me like you are creating the world that Ingrid asked for and doing it well. In my experience, things like what you are doing become increasingly difficult to bear and more oppressive as time goes on.
Ingrid is lucky to have your love and attention. I am sure that she will come to see that what you ar doing is best for her.

Respectfully,
705

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Dear MsHanna
thank you for your interest.
My problem is that I want to please Ingrid by making her realize her desires of submission and discipline,
She doesn't like my punishments, which is my goal, but I can't bring myself to beat her, which is her greatest desire. From what she told me, she has never suffered real punishment and she dreams of suffering.
Kisses
Anja

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Thanks for your support 705.
Kisses.
Anja

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705 wrote:

Dear Azureko1,

Yes, I took your idea to my supervisor and it will probably become part of my program in some form beginning in January. I expect it will be part of some other changes, as well. Thank you.

Respectfully,
705

Last edited by 705 (2023-11-18 23:23:37)

Greetings

Thanks for bringing the suggestion to your supervisor.
What other changes are going to be made to your custody program?

Best regards

Azureko.

Last edited by Azureko1 (2023-12-01 17:34:25)

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Dear Azureko1,

I don't know all of the specifics yet. The area I can travel without permission has gotten a bit smaller and much more justification is required when I ask to leave. It feels like a lot of the internet restrictions have increased. The GPS tracker verification photos seem to be required more frequently and the process is more cumbersome. For the new year, the actual intermittent confinement will be restructured and we may use your suggestion on other weekends.
Thank you for your interest.

Respectfully,
705

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Pleasant Sunday all!

I am incarcerated again, as of Friday, when I got my last college assignments taken care of prior to the holidays, and now will spend the next 2 weeks incarcerated. As this will be our last time together this year with my partner, he has decided to introduce tightened security.

I am to be kept in leg irons at all times, and some other forms of security, and I was transported from home with my usual grey jumpsuit, hands cuffed behind back with a blue box attached to my waist chain, with not one, but two chains going from my waist chain to my leg irons, and there was an additional chain from my leg irons attached to the front seat in front of me. (I am always transported in the backseat of the car) in addition to those, my collar was also locked onto my waist chain, and I was blindfolded and muzzle gagged for the ride. (It wasn't too long of a ride, takes about an hour and a half to get to the cottage.)

All in all, it has been fun to be subjected to the new form of transportation, and my new security routines.

Hugs,

Inmate Hanna

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Dear Inmate Hanna,

This sounds like the beginning of a great break from school as you  get ready for the holidays. Secure transport always adds something special to any travel. It is nice that your partner decided to enforce enhanced security. How hard was it to have to deal with the blue box behind your back while riding in the car? I have always found it hard to have to sit like this unless there is a cutout in the seat for the prisoners arms and wrists.

Respectfully,
705

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705 wrote:

Dear Inmate Hanna,

This sounds like the beginning of a great break from school as you  get ready for the holidays. Secure transport always adds something special to any travel. It is nice that your partner decided to enforce enhanced security. How hard was it to have to deal with the blue box behind your back while riding in the car? I have always found it hard to have to sit like this unless there is a cutout in the seat for the prisoners arms and wrists.

Respectfully,
705

Dear 705

It has certainly been fun to be subjected to higher security as an inmate lately, for example, this last week I have had my ankles kept in cuffs, with a chain attached to an anchor point at all times, as before it has been one ankle in a chain, and my waist chain has been secured aswell, but I have been most of my days without handcuffs, apart from when I am escorted out of my room in the morning and before bed to be chained.

And it was fun, but also a little painful to be in blue box behind my back during my prisoner transport, but as they say, no pain no gain!

Hugs,

Inmate Hanna

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MsHanna wrote:

this last week I have had my ankles kept in cuffs, with a chain attached to an anchor point at all times,

Dear Inmate Hanna,

I am glad you now have ankle cuff full time for this period. I know that the chain to an anchor point all of the time goes a long way toward developing the inescapable prison mindset. What a great holiday gift.

Respectfully,
705

Last edited by 705 (2023-12-10 18:24:17)

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705 wrote:

Dear Inmate Hanna,

I am glad you now have ankle cuff full time for this period. I know that the chain to an anchor point all of the time goes a long way toward developing the inescapable prison mindset. Wgat a great holiday gift.

Respectfully,
705

Dear 705,

Yes it has been a great gift! The only time I am not secured in ankle cuffs or other restraints is when I am locked inside my cell. We have determined it to be rather pointless, as I am inside four walls without a way to get out without being let out, and as soon as I hear the door opening, I am to lay down face down, hands on my sides and ankles crossed, so my partner can cuff my hands behind back, and blindfold me and place me in a muzzle gag, so he can move me to the living room safely, where puts me down on my knees so he can lock my ankle cuffs on me and double lock them in place and then secure me in my chain and waist chain.

Only then I am released from handcuffs, muzzle, and blindfold, and I am allowed to move freely as much as my tether allows me.

Hugs,

Inmate Hanna

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MsHanna wrote:

The only time I am not secured in ankle cuffs or other restraints is when I am locked inside my cell. We have determined it to be rather pointless, as I am inside four walls without a way to get out without being let out,

Dear Inmate Hanna,

When I am in the cell, there is usually a chain from a collar, or a waist belt or a wrist or ankle cuff to the wall. It helps enforce that I cannot escape even if the door is open. Their procedure for me is to have me face the back wall of the cell whenever they open the door to make adjustments.
I hope you are continuing to enjoy and benefit from your captive time.

Respectful hugs,
705

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Dear MsHanna,
I hope you're doing well.
I am delighted to read your adventures and I have a few questions:
Aren't you afraid of being stopped by the police during your transport, they might think it was a kidnapping?
Isn't it too annoying
for you to be blind in the car by not being able to anticipate the movements of the vehicle, you will have to be shaken?
Shouldn't you wear mittens to make yourself even more helpless?
Finally, what is a blue box?
Kisses.
  Anja.

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705 wrote:

Dear Inmate Hanna,

When I am in the cell, there is usually a chain from a collar, or a waist belt or a wrist or ankle cuff to the wall. It helps enforce that I cannot escape even if the door is open. Their procedure for me is to have me face the back wall of the cell whenever they open the door to make adjustments.
I hope you are continuing to enjoy and benefit from your captive time.

Respectful hugs,
705

Dear 705,

It is always interesting to hear how others are kept incarcerated, and exchange stories and experiences!

Anja wrote:

Dear MsHanna,
I hope you're doing well.
I am delighted to read your adventures and I have a few questions:
Aren't you afraid of being stopped by the police during your transport, they might think it was a kidnapping?
Isn't it too annoying
for you to be blind in the car by not being able to anticipate the movements of the vehicle, you will have to be shaken?
Shouldn't you wear mittens to make yourself even more helpless?
Finally, what is a blue box?
Kisses.
  Anja.

Dear Anja,

I have never felt afraid of being stopped by the police, but I am sure if that happened, my partner would unlock me, and I would tell what was really happening, and everyone would have an awkward laugh afterwards, I am a grown woman, after all. And wearing mittens behind my back would most certainly make it super uncomfortable to sit in the backseat, with hands cuffed behind my back.

And blue box is a handcuff cover that is placed on the cuffs, and it hides the key holes of the handcuffs, and you attach it to the waist chain with another chain, and place a lock on the attaching chain, so the inmate does not have a chance to tamper with the handcuffs and escape.

Hugs,

Inmate Hanna

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Dear All,
We wish you a beautiful and merry Christmas.
XOXO.
Anja and Ingrid

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Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all. May your holidays be wonderful.
Respectfully,
705

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Merry Christmas to everyone.
I'm back, my phone was broken and I got another one as a gift for this Christmas.
I hope you are all in good health.
Lots of love.
Sophie.

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I also want to wish you all a (late) merry Christmas and a happy new year.

And welcome back Sophie, I was indeed beginning to wonder, where you went.

(Also wondering about Jess - are you still there? What happened after october 31st?)

Respectfully,
Msh

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Dear Sophie,
I am glad you are back. We worried about you.
It is also good to hear from all of the others who have been absent for a while.

Respectfully,
705

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Happy New Year to those of us under control, living as prisoners, captives, or inmates and those who are generous to keep us secure!

Respectfully,
705

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705 wrote:

Happy New Year to those of us under control, living as prisoners, captives, or inmates and those who are generous to keep us secure!

Respectfully,
705

Happy New year,

How are your changes going on your supervision agreement in terms of home confinements and such things?

Best regards

Azureko

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