There have not been posts in this topic (and most others) for a while. Perhaps interest in captive life is diminishing or runs in cycles.

I continue in my supervision program. Most of the basic structure remains the same. Some of the rules have been simplified to make them more clear and, in a few cases, more restrictive.
The intermittent confinement has been difficult to schedule so I am about 30 hours behind on the regular schedule and an additional 12 hours were added as a correction for a violation. The regular weekend restrictions continue: uniform, shackles, cuffs and waistbelt, and heavier collar.
The GPS tracking bracelets remain in place. The charger for one of them has been replaced twice so far this year. The penalty for failing to charge or low battery warnings has been increased to 4 hours loss of access to all devices.
New parental control software, Norton Family, has been added to increase web monitoring and enforce a device curfew for all of the computers I have access to and for my phone and tablet. I am not longer allowed to have a stand-alone Linux system because there is no good control software for Linux. My Linux computer was moved to a virtual machine on a Windows computer so it can be controlled by Norton Family.
Amazon discontinued their "teen" accounts that allowed a "parent" (supervisor) to control purchases. We were able to develop a hopefully suitable replacement.
We have added a "Pavlok" device to my watch band. The Pavlok allows sending a beep, a vibration, or a harmless but attention getting shock. It is intended for habit change stimulus and reinforcement.  The plan is to integrate it into my behavior adjustment program.

I hope Jess, MsHanna, Azureko, Sophie, the Turtle of Doom, Transmorpher, and the rest of the gang are well and doing things that make them happy.

Respectfully,

Dear msh,

Thank you for your reply. You might be right. Maybe all the things that need to be told have been. I am suprised, though, that there are not new people with new stories. Maybe they are not able to find the forum overall or maybe they are sharing somewhere else. I am a little bit limited in my ability to look for other places. I am also curious about what Jess deciced to do.
Seeing women for dinner still requires permission and that has been generalized to any one on one or small group interation of any kind "for their and your protection".  Permission is denied occasionally. Sometimes, I have to change the plans. The most usual change is the restaurant is not acceptable, for what ever reason, and I need to choose somewhere else. The amount of justification has increased somewhat, I think. "Why, who is it?, How do you know them?" It sometimes feels like a teenager from the 1970s trying to go out on Friday night.  Ther have been some asjustments to the supervision to increase transparency on my part. That has occasionally required a written report or journal entry about the interaction.
The permission has not expanded beyond women. That might have been the intent of "for now". But dinner with anyone usually will need a curfew exception and they have become less frequent and harder to get.

Thank you for helping to keep the forum going!

Respectfully,

First I thought that 180 hours a year doesn't sound like much; then I thought again: Under those conditions, it is a lot, and 60 hours in a row in a not-so-pleasant condition is quite impressive. I feel with you and don't know if I should feel pity or envy. I will do both, and hats off to you for taking such a big chunk of your backlog. Are your punishments always adding time to your confinement, or can they also add to the discomfort?
Best wishes
shecret

Hi 705

I am wondering how are you going to plan for 252 hours when you potentially could be spending it only on weekend to plan your confinement? Secondly are your supervisors planning for you to get a scram bracelet?

Hi 705

Which kind of report were you supposed to make? Besides that what are the consequences if you don't show up for your confinement? Does your Supervisor reserve the right than to have you arrested or something eventough it is a civil contract ?

Best regards

Azureko.

I would like to introduce myself her and tell you about me and my situation.  My name is kaitlyn and I am a 36 year old woman living the captive life style in New Zealand.  I left my previous life to enter 24/7 service to a poly family on a small farm holding which is made up of two couples and they are my keepers/jailers/owners.

I am kept in chastity and restraints of some form 24/7.  We are fortunate to rurally and privately so can live this lifestyle relatively freely.  I have only been here 6 months so far but is something I am enjoying and I know it is on the more extreme end of the spectrum so happy to see others here that have similar restrained lifestyles

Well I am not the biggest of writers as the mind always draws a blank or leads to complete waffle or tangent but if you have any specific questions I am happy to answer those

Well I a pretty open book.  I was always interested in bdsm as a submissive since a teen and dabbled a bit but found my desires and wants spread further than that to complete ownership.  I know this is not a bdsm forum so shall not discuss those aspect out of respect for other who may not want to hear it.  But I am a service orientated slave and slave to the household so responsible for may tasks such as cleaning and laundry and the like.

Yes I am in chastity 24/7 and wear a fancysteel belt. So that is one form of restraint I am not without.  I have never been greatly motivated by sex so the chastity is fine by me.  It keeps me in my place and allows me to focus on the needs of others and enjoying each moment of the lifestyle.  I suppose it is a constant state of foreplay and not having orgasms is not gonna kill me...is it.  It is removed every 2 days for cleaning and ablution purposes which are always supervised or done for me. 

As for my restraints they vary as to the type from police style transport cuffs to heavier shackles.  I am always collared and I sleep in chains and a chain fastened to the bed.  I have enough room to reach the toilet in my room or rather cell. It is a small room but has a ensuite shower and toilet.  It sounds flash but is very plain and small.  All I have in here is a bed, and basic chest for clothes and a small desk for computer access.  Around the house I am lead by a leash in my chains to a "work station"  as they call it  where a chain is attached.  It allows me movement in that area only to do any chores required.  Normally the chores are in the morning and I get lock down in my cell for the afternoon where I do computer work.  If I am to leave the property with them I am always supervised and in prison transport chains and wear them as much as possible.  THey are only removed when they have to so others are not offended or see.

As for my name that is upto you.  You see how I live and I gave up a house, car, job and relationship to pursue this life and I am now living as the lowest of the low so refer to me as you see fit.

Hobbies wise when there is time I do enjoy reading.  Mainly regarding history or watching youtube on travel and outdoor activities which I know is rather ironic as I do not get to do those myself lol.  Those I can carry on with.  Rules yes plenty, eye contact and speech contact restrictions and I am subjected to corporal punishment.  I am allowed to converse here freely as long as I am polite and respectful and do not give out too many private details as many of you know its not a way of life understood or condoned by many.

As for leaving yes I can leave and have to give a 3month notice period and will be placed in solitary confinement for that duration.  Its harsh I know as I did not want a easy way out but there is a way out

Thank you, I do see what you are saying there.  It did take a lot of courage to give that up and I must have admit I have had my wobbles and wondered if I have made a mistake.  I mean there is fantasy but this day to day life for me now though.  I mean I have not burnt all my bridges as I do have a savings account that will sit and there is enough money to start over if need be.  So I do have that safety net.  Thankfully finances are not short here so I can be kept well enough.

With the respect thing I am refered to here as slave of K 8. But that is my owners choice for them and we do not wish to impose that on others so they may address me as they please.  This all rather new to me to not really sure on the protocols.  I am living in chains so I appreciate that does put me in a different position to many, well not here maybe but in general society and I have only met one other in a similar situation in NZ anyway but we are only a population of 5m lol so not a massive pool.  There are a Mistress and Master here and a male sub and female sub.  They are subs and I am the slave.

Now I wonder about your everyday clothing: are you wearing some casual clothes, or some kind of a prisoner uniform, or are you mostly kept naked except for the belt? As for the sets of chains you have to sleep and work in, I understand that they are quite restrictive, you have to walk only in small steps and keep your hands close together? Are they also connected to the collar? Are you at least able to eat normally or did you have to make some new habits?

Clothing is relatively normal.  I wear socks, leggings, sweaters and cardi in winter and socks tshirt and short in summer,  Here it is winter.  The wrist cuffs and collar stay on at all times and the chain can be connected in between to desire lengths with padlocks so I can not tamper.  Ankle cuffs come off more often but they are not so tight so I can feed socks underneath and that stops chaffing when walking around.

My chain lengths are more practical so I can do most things and depends on the tasks.  I can walk but not run.  I can climb stairs but not a ladder.  The wrists normally have about 40cm chain between and then a chain to the collar so most tasks are possible just with some restriction.

As for eating it is normal yes except I am not allowed to eat in the main room so in the kitchen or cell.  Also my weight needs to be managed because of the chastity belt so get 1 hrs exercise on the treadmill.  I do not have any ankle chains on there for safety reasons

I love the regency period, hense the interest in domestic servitude.  I love the mannerisms or a society long gone.  I am aware it was a horrible time for many so not romantising it in anyway as most do, they take the best of times and the worst of times and thats what they portray lol

I have alway struggled with diaries to be fair

The three months' notice seems really fair and reasonable! Right, it's harsh, on the other hand after a few years you might want to make the notice period longer. Really though, that's why I asked about the limits and safewords. For example, can your owners unilaterally decide "from now on it will be six months", or do they need your permission? Or - on the contrary - could they suddenly release you without any warning? And when you're released, do you have anything to return to or would you have to start your civilian life completely from zero? On a similar note, I hope that your approval would be needed for some other extreme decisions, for example if they wanted to make permanent modifications to your body.

I think the 3 months is fair, I mean you cant just be in prison and say you want to go home now.  Doesn't work that way. So having an out is good to know but I know it is something I will only use if I had to.  Saves any emotional rash decisions.  I do not have much say day to day.  There is a 3monthly meeting we have to discuss everyone's situation.  We had big discussions before so know where I sit.  I mean obviously situations may change so those 3 monthly meetings are important.

As for the bdsm side it is very much similar to the above.  I can only speak to the subs. The Master and Mistress I must not speak to or make eye contact with unless directed to.  And I am subject to corporal discipline as well

There is no topic that I an not willing to discuss so apologies if it comes across like that.  If I am asked a question I will answer it.  I do not take offense to any question as long as it is between consenting adults.  It may not be my thing or part of my new world but I do not judge.

I am free in my dreams and often forget untill I wake in the morning and start to move and then get reminded

To me they are a feeling of saftey and security

Ah good question.  It was a progression.  I was in a bdsm relationship with my then husband and when I got back from work  I used to wear chains around the home, at night and weekends.  He was not as strict with it as I wanted and it was something that we drifted in opposite directions with. He wanted me to be in them less as they were looking a whereas I wanted more.  With the lifestyle he wanted and what I wanted it was not sustainable so we amicably parted ways

That was when i seriously started to consider options and heard of this situation through a friend of a friend of a friend  in the community.  Evey one I spoke to said don't go there lol they are extreme but that just made me more and more curious.  So we met in a vanilla setting a few times to ensure they were sane and I spent week long period there before arriving long term and baggage free.

the vanilla meets were with the Dominants who are an older couple and we hit it off well. And then when I visited I met their submissives who are closer to my age.  I got show around the place in ankle shackles and leash and they was shown some of the tasks to perform to assist the sub.  I slept in cuffs too and then on day three got a few longterm restraint sessions and hoodings.  Some whipping and caning to.  They tried to show me best they can in the week.  They did offter a longer trial period but I asked for even longer and just to come as these chances do not come up often so was not messing around

They picked my up from the airport and I was shackled in the carpark for the drive home and that has been my life ever since.l  It was police style transport chains so ankle shackles, cuff lock box and waist chain.  I was also gagged but as it was winter I had a big turtleneck on so no one could really see that when stuck in traffic.  I was nervous as hell though that someone may see.  As for my belongings they are in storage at my parents, well mainly sentimental stuff as most furniture I sold as was not needed.  So pretty much have arrved with one suitcase.  After a year here I can bring my possessions down if I so wish

So yes the transport chains are  leg shackles and a waist chain and handcuffs in a lock box fastened.  As yes we have been seen with me like that in pubilc. Thankfully a cover story was given that I have mental health issues where its a form of tourettes where I lash out and may hurt myself and others so the restraint are for safety so I can get out and about.  The woman was walking her dog and just said oh poor love lol and carried on her way.  We did finished up the picnic quickly and left just in case

They are locked on yes most the time but not permanent as in riveted on.  They can be removed.  They are stainless steel and from aliexpress so not high top quality but they are pretty good and no way for me to get out of them.  Band is about a inch and half I would say and yes various chains and configurations as needed.  Sometimes just between wrists and ankles and sometimes to collar and all joined up

Yes I wear socks and they can help with the police style cuffs.  We have double locking cuffs so no chance of them tightening.  They are used lots as well as they are quick and easy to use.  We are looking at some leather cuffs to go under the wrist cuffs as protection

I think its both the mental and physical as they are both very related to me, one leads to the other.  The enjoyment of the physical is big but the mental control is the main thing.  I am her as a captive slave so enjoy the lack of control yes as it make me feel secure and safe and having no access to the keys is important to me

The subs are restrained at times yes but not full time like myself

I am not sure how I referred to the lifestyle in a negative way?  I do not feel that is lifetsyle is negative for those of us this way inclined and in fact quite the opposite.  I do imagine to many it would be hell on earth but everyone is different.  Just like those of us who like to be kept captive and those that like to keep us that way.    As for my motivations....well...interesting question and not 100% sure.  I did have alot of social anxiety in the vanilla world.  The stress of relationships, friendships, work deadlines and bills and payments.  I know to many that is just usual life bit having all of those over me and having to make decisions I found overwhelming.  Here I have strict structure and routine. few emotions and my mind is calm

you are welcome, there are not many people in the world I can actually share my life with so it is nice to be able to openly talk about it