When I was moved here to the new place everything was almost ready. Only minor changes and adjustments have been made since then.
I was only isolated to other parts of the house (locked room) for a short time, then I had to use a gag "for safety" even though there were no guests in the house.Nowadays, gag use is sporadic, especially when I'm alone. It's also the case when regulars come here (Committee member, Nina or Erin).
Of course, they have the power to decide whether I use the gag or not, but they often don't have a reason to do it. It acts as a kind of deterrent to me that I know how to behave.
...I remember a time when the gag hung on my belt (or neck) so that it could be quickly deployed.The longest time is many hours, only drink/food time interrupts it.
I also used a gag at night but now I have given it up for safety reasons. I have a hood at night with the lower part of my face open.There is no security system if I have a problem with the gag and I am alone.
I just have to be careful and not panic.
Of course, surveillance is increased during the use of the gag but still. The indoor camera does not see everything and there is no guarantee that someone is watching the monitor all the time.I am a used gag user, but I can still say that life is much easier without it.
Haha, yes they do have.that power.
That also means they have a responsibility, same as anyone else. Not your problem to worry about, this is more a philosophical issue on power dynamics. Back in the day, we used to talk about whether abuse is even possible if a dominant offers a slave contract demanding complete obediance, a slave willingly signs it, and then the dom abuses the heck out of their new found absolute authority by, say, ordering their slave to rob a bank.
As a mental exercise, it's an interesting stretch of the imagination. But what scared me a little bit were if people started talking like they believe choosing to give up all your power means if you sign a slave contract and get ordered to jump off a bridge, if you refuse then you aren't a REAL slave.
It's a stupid argument, obviously. You can call yourself whatever you want and live however you want, but harm is harm. Human beings don't get to say they aren't commiting spousal abuse, battering their wives or subs or husbands, because of a choice that was made in excitement or passion or kink.
A scumbag is a scumbag is a scumbag. All of them have an excuse for.it, harm needs to be the line.
Sorry for the rant, bit of a pet peeve of mine.
Last edited by Transmorpher (2025-05-14 18:31:20)
